It’s Been Three Looooong Months! Thankful for Unseen Blessings…

But for the fact that I can see my last post date, it’s almost impossible for me to believe it’s been three months since I put up a post….3 months? waoh!

 

I won’t even attempt to come up with any reason(s) for abandoning the blog. All I want to do is apologise to all those who follow and/or read Anoda Phase – for abandoning my passion for writing and for allowing cobwebs to gather on here, but more so, for neglecting my responsibility to you all.

I also want to thank all those who kept checking on the blog/catching up on their reading/commenting on old(er) posts etc. It’ very humbling to know that I didn’t put up new posts for 3 months and my blog was still getting reasonable traffic. Thanks also to all who have liked and continue to like Anoda Phase on Facebook.

So, happy new year to you all (better late than never, right?) I trust that everyone is well.

It is my prayer that this year, you will align yourselves with the Lord’s plans for your lives, and experience genuine transformation, growth, increase, freedom, and favour unlimited.

As for me, I’m thankful for both seen and unseen blessings – on the last day of 2011, I got an unexpected blessing – actually, I did expect it – ok let me explain better;

Around October/November (I think) 2011, I heard something on the news and I proclaimed that I would be a beneficiary of that thing in Jesus’ name. I then completely forgot about it, and you can only imagine my initial confusion, surprise, disbelief, and then utter gratitude, when on December 31 2011, I received a letter – and a cheque – in the post.

Also, hubby and I are trusting God for a miracle which initially seemed veeeery far away, but is now inching ever so close, and we are thankful and trustful that it will come sooner than later, and we shall testify again.

I’m thankful for unseen/yet to be seen blessings – What are you thankful for?

Don’t forget, we have a TESTIMONY CORNER on this blog.

 

We Fall Down, But We Get Up…

Early last month, I had a conversation with a family member, and let’s just say I came out of that conversation feeling like a failure.

 

They practically used an area of my life that is currently a “challenge” to insult me, and oh, it hurt – really, truly, deeply, hurt. I cried, and cried, and then cried some more.

 

I was broken to many pieces and was at an all-time low for a while – I even contemplated doing something that I’m ashamed to say I even thought about – I lost interest in many things, blogging included.

 

In all of these though, I had to fake being okay for my hubby and others’ sake (I gave hubby an abridged version of what happened).

 

I took the matter to the Lord and rather than ask “Why me?” or such other questions, I tearfully begged Him to remember me, and look upon my case and turn it around to favour me.

 

I haven’t got the answer yet, but I see good signs, and “I hear the sound of abundance of rain”. I trust that in His own perfect and right time, the Lord will answer me and put a new song in my mouth.

 

Why am I writing this? You may wonder…Well, it’s not so I can attract a pity-party and accumulate “sorries” and “it will be wells” (even though I’ll appreciate them).

 

…It’s simply so (hopefully) I can finally let the pain and hurt out of my physical body, and get back to doing the things that I truly enjoy (e.g. blogging and reading other blogs– lol). For this reason, I’m turning off comments on this post.

 

I came across this prayer in a book I read a few months ago – The Millionaire Joshua by Catherine Ponder – and if you are hurting or have been hurt by anyone recently, then please say the prayer with me:

 

“I now fully and freely forgive and release everything and everyone, who needs it, of the past or present – I forgive and release everyone – I am free and they are free too – All things are cleared up between us now and forever”

Amen!

 
PS: After typing this post in the morning, I went off to read my Bible and pray. Guess what I came across?

“Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past.
See, I am doing a new thing!
Now it springs up; do you not perceive it?
I am making a way in the wilderness
and streams in the wasteland.”
Is 43:18-19

 

 

 

 

TGIF: When a Cockerel Becomes a Sheep, You Thank God It’s Friday!

 

 - I can’t even begin to think what must be on the minds of these children – do they really  plan to start the generator? And the one with his leg on the Gen? lol.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - someone had so much time, probably while waiting for the soup, to turn his eba into a face??? (PS: Eba ia made from garri, a staple starchy food in Nigeria)

 

 

 

 

 

 - I saw this on Facebook sometime ago, and while I hope it’s a fabrication/joke, I can’t help but wonder: if someone sent you this message on Facebook, what would you do? laff it off? delete the person asap? pass a caption of the message around for laffs?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - Unique – this “bed-dress” or what do I call it? I actually like it…but a bit creepy? No?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - Imagine if this became an official mode of transport. For women. Or perhaps, for better comic relief, for men! lol.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - Mr Ibu (Nigerian Comedian) on a movie set – no further comments.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - Want to be a millionaire? Answer the question!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - A cockerel is a sheep? LWKPH!

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 - I say Amen! What do you say?

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Have a fantastic weekend.

 

How Can I Grow My Finger Nails Long and Strong?

 

Oh, how I’d love to have long natural nails like the ones pictured….

 

I’ve always liked long, well-groomed, natural finger nails, but that’s something I’ve not been able to enjoy.

 

My finger nails grow fast, but they are so soft, and they get broken very easily, so they never stay long.

 

I’ve tried several nail hardeners and other products (in fact, I just got a nail and cuticle cream from Boots this afternoon), I take good care of my hands, and I try to get regular  manicures, but so far, nothing has worked in enabling me to grow and keep the long nails I want.

 

Several years ago, I wore French manicure nails quite often, and getting them off always hurt my natural nails, but I have no idea if that has contributed in any way to the lack of strength of my natural nails.

 

I must also mention that I have short nail beds – does that hamper nail growth/strength?

 

Any tips or product ideas on how to grow my natural nails? Please hook a sister up.

 

Cheers.

 

Help! My Tea is Hissing…

For real!

 

I made a mug of tea this afternoon…tea bag, a teaspoon of honey, milk and hot water, as I usually do.

 

When I tasted it, it was too hot, so I added a little cold water to it…all of a sudden, my tea started to hiss – as in, psssssssssssssss, hiss!

 

Call me superstitious or whatever, but my mind started thinking a thousand thoughts.

 

When I asked my hubby to listen to the sound, the hissing stopped. Ha!

 

Of course I threw the hissing tea away…I can’t shout.

 

 

TGIF – Start Your Weekend With An Incredible Dose of Laughter…

No need for me to say anything…just enjoy the pictures…oh, and your weekend too.

PS: I guess only my Nigerian readers will understand most of these. 

 

The Fervent Prayer of a 5-Year Old…Hot, Hot, Hot!

Have You Lost IT?

What is IT? You may wonder…IT here, refers to, for example, a gift, talent, skill, your joy, your bubbly personality, a calling, etc.

Whatever IT represents to u, I ask you – Have you still got IT? Or have you lost IT?

This is a paraphrase of my Pastor’s message in church yesterday. Pastor Simon talked wide and deep, but I’m keeping my focus here on the IT matter…

One characteristic of those who have got IT and kept IT, according to Pastor Simon, is the joy of the Lord that radiates in and around them, whereas those who have lost IT are characteristically moaners, whiners, complainers, sad, depressed.

Why You May Lose IT / How to Keep IT

• Intimacy with God is essential to keeping IT, and so prayerlessness can lead to losing IT…If you don’t stay connected and hence invigorated, you will lose IT because IT will fade away.

• If you start to lose IT then you need to examine your prayer life, time spent with God, intimacy and relationship with God – He is our source – of life, of IT, and of all good things.

• Keeping account of past sins also makes you lose IT. When you are obsessed with sin, you can’t be obsessed with God. God has forgiven you and wiped your slate clean, so forgive yourself, stop carrying around the shame, and move on. You are no longer under law, you are now under grace. (Is 43: 18-19)

• Hard work is also key, to keeping IT. Faith and connection to God, without works (application), is dead. Pray, and DO something with IT if you don’t want to lose IT.

There’s application to the revelation that you receive from God.

In the parable of the talent, the master required a return from his servants whom he had given talents – more from the one(s) to whom he had given more. The servant that produced no yield LOST even the one talent that he had been given, to another, more fruitful than himself. (Matt 25:14-30)

Whenever God pours out His anointing on us, it is to equip us to DO what He has assigned us to do – don’t lose your IT to a more willing receiver – take action today – trust God, and begin to apply your IT.

Be blessed!